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Self-sabotage runs rampant in many professions, especially entrepreneurship. We discuss how to overcome and eventually eliminate self-sabotage in this episode with my guest, Shiraz Baboo.
Shiraz is a multi-award-winning author, international speaker, and Reality Interventionist. He is known for helping people to rewrite their reality to overcome challenges in their lives. Shiraz has helped thousands of people to overcome illness, poverty and unconsciously addicted struggles.
Shiraz was stagnant for decades as an entrepreneur. He made about $100,000 a year; but when you’re at that level year after year and it never increases it becomes very, very frustrating. He knew he knew how to make money because he got from nothing to $100,000 but he didn’t know what was going on that had him stuck. Then he had an idea to earn $1 million in one year when he met the people from “The Secret”, including Bob Proctor, John Assaraf and more.
Shiraz got their contact information and was going to create an app that involved all of them and their mailing lists. While anticipating success Shiraz’s income went from $100,000 to $0 in two years. He left his business because he was so sure his plan was going to work and started working on the app full time.
So Close and Yet So Far
Shiraz experienced the effects of self-sabotage. It’s not that his potential business partners didn’t like him, the relationships just started to fizzle out and Shiraz and his app fell off their radar. Shiraz kept trying to develop the app and he kept getting delays. He’d have to go back to them and tell them it’s still not ready. Eventually they gave up and Shiraz gave up. He went back to his old business, and he went right back to earning $100,000 a year.
How to Prevent Self Sabotage
Many years later Shiraz was presented with another opportunity to start making more money. Shiraz was more self-aware and learned techniques to prevent self-sabotage. He realized the last time he took certain actions his income went down. He didn’t want his income to go down so he searched out and found the reasons his income declined. Shiraz believes that most people don’t realize that you don’t self-sabotage because of circumstance and you oftentimes don’t do it because you’re afraid. You self-sabotage because you’re so comfortable and you’re addicted to that state of status quo. So, when you leave that state your body goes through withdrawal and your body makes you do things to go back to that space where it’s addicted to, the status quo.
The exception is if what you’re trying to do scares you so much it pushes you in the opposite direction. That’s what happened with Shiraz. There was a big fear of earning a million dollars a year. Shiraz worked with a coach and found out when he was a teenager his family and friends told him they had zero doubt that he would be making millions of dollars. His brain went oh my god they’re going to leach off me. If I have a million dollars everyone will want my money. So, his brain decided that at $100,000 a year he would be safe from leaches so that’s where he stayed.
Once they got that belief cleared by the next year Shiraz had made over $200,000 and he was on his way!
In this episode we also dive into:
- How to discover and clear your negative beliefs.
- Why 95% of what’s keeping you from success in your business has nothing to do with your business.
- How Shiraz got to $1,000,000 in sales.
- How to match your conscious beliefs with your unconscious beliefs.
- How to recognize emotional triggers that tell you something inside needs to shift.
- How to start stopping self-sabotage.
- Why the biggest things your mind tries to avoid are guilt and shame.
- How to train your brain to think the thoughts you want and feel the feelings you want.
- Ways to avoid the withdrawal from your self-sabotage addiction.
- Once you “get out of the self-sabotage hole” how to maintain your success in just 10-15 minutes a day.
- The power of visualization combined with positive emotion.
- How to get into a feeling of gratitude every day.
- The one thing, above all else, that you need to do to eliminate self-sabotage.
…and more golden nuggets of advice!
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About My Guest
Shiraz Baboo is a multi-award-winning author, international speaker, and Reality Interventionist. He is known for helping people to rewrite their reality to overcome challenges in their lives. Shiraz has helped thousands of people to overcome illness, poverty and unconsciously addicted struggles. Overall, he is a renowned personality in the area of reality addiction, and his book, How to Rewrite Reality has changed lives across the globe.
Connect with Shiraz!
https://www.linkedin.com/in/shirazbaboo/
https://www.youtube.com/energeticmagic/
https://www.tiktok.com/@energetic.magic
https://www.instagram.com/energetic.magic/
https://www.facebook.com/energeticmagic/